Several people standing in a circle, each holding another person's wrist to form a chain of support

Accomplishment Amnesia: What It Is and How to Overcome It

Are you neurodivergent? Have you ever thought or felt like you aren’t normal? Do you have thoughts like “I’m not good enough”, or “I don’t deserve this”, “I’m just lucky that I got this far”? Ever wondered why you feel that way? That’s what this post is about. It’s about a phenomenon called “Accomplishment Amnesia” and how to resolve it. What is it? I’m not a psychologist or a medical professional by any means. I am just a neurodivergent person who has experienced this phenomenon and through conversations have observed that others have this too. So like most curious people, I just went and did some reading and thought I’d share what I had learned and what has helped me and those I’ve spoken to about this matter. ...

July 26, 2026 · 6 min · 1180 words · eakangk
Engineering Manager Balancing Code and Leadership

To Code or Not to Code as an Engineering Manager: Making the Right Choice

I used to regularly run the engineering manager community of Practice at my current workplace. I loved and still love it. But now I barely get time to do anything extra. My hours are so squeezed into a specific slot of time - the time when my toddler is not at home. :D I got asked in the community slack channel a very important question. One that a lot of engineering managers debate in their heads. Especially if they used to be tech leads and then switched to managing others. They get their joy from helping others develop and also building something that others can use. ...

October 30, 2025 · 2 min · 424 words · eakangk